Some learnings from my career... (an edited version of what I sent to my team)
Two things about trust. Trust is built by solving
problems - especially unstated. Find a problem, and a solution and take it to your
stakeholders – that builds relationships better than meetings and order
taking ever can. And second, trust is reciprocal, always – and that is
the only way to build it. Assume Goodwill – trust pays.
Two
ways to work – one is to do what one is asked and the second is to go
out there and take ownership and deliver. I am a big fan of the second
model – and that comes with a risk of putting ourselves out there
committing that we will deliver.
Value
added work is never given – it is always taken. Value added work has a
benefit – it gets you a chance to do more great work. Likewise for other
categories.
Don’t
befriend TINA. TINA stands for There Is No Alternative – and is the
first line of defence to continue entrenched practices. Always believe
that an alternate way is possible especially when you see constraints -
it is also a good belief system to have in life as well – there is
always an alternative.
Go
put your strengths to work – yours, your teams and everyone has some
strength that can be used. A collective force of individual strengths as
a team is a far better way to go out there than using papered over
weaknesses to appear uniform.
Walls and boundaries are for kingdoms and countries – not in teams. Break every wall you encounter.
While
listening is a great skill to have – it is equally important to have a
voice on every table – after all that is the reason you have a seat on
the table. If seats do not get converted into voices – the seat is
wasted. And if you have a seat but no voice, best to give up that seat.
Know
your lines and draw them. If you don’t, you will find yourself framed
in someone else’s drawing – and that is never a great place to be.
Likewise for shoes. Never fill in someone elses shoes. Find your shoes
and walk in them.
Never be afraid to ask – because if you never ask, the answer is always no – which is my second favourite line of all time.
And that brings me to the line I live by – which is – you never know until you try…
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